There are dialogues where we do not need to make ‘understanding one another’ the goal. Beyond the binary of preserving one’s centre versus opening to the world, the two are, in truth, the front and back of a single life. Letting go of Cartesian division and guided by the Japanese heart, we drop beneath the logic of the head to recall the ‘connection before the division’ in our hara. A supple way of being for the era ahead.